Shopping & Shipping

  • Set a giving budget.
  • Always carry a list.
  • Use new trash bags as packing material.
  • Pack fragile items with new rolls of toilet paper, towels or kitchen towels.
  • Used items -  never send anything you wouldn't give to your own family.
  • Used items -  always wash clothing and clean toys before sending.
  • Do NOT send any 'Native American'  items to the reservation. Lakota specific books and gifts are fine but 'Made in China' dreamcatchers and generic 'Indian' items are inappropriate.









Small deeds done are better than great deeds planned
"I would like to help, but I just don't have the time or the money."
 
Helping individuals and organizations takes no more time or money than our normal lives.  In fact, it will probably enhance your life because you will become more mindful of how you spend your time and money.
 
 
When giving to the reservation, start slow and don't overdo it.  I went in with guns blazing and exhausted myself.  Pace yourself.  Do what you can.  Sometimes you will be able to do more, sometimes less.  The important thing is to do SOMETHING. 
Make the most of your money 
Below are some suggestions of where to shop.   These have worked very well for me and I hope I may spark a few ideas for you.

Brick & Mortar Shopping
 
Dollar Stores/Dollar Tree/Everything a Dollar - You know the stores. All items are $1 or less.  These are fantastic stores for finding everything from spatulas to cough drops.  Most have surprisingly nice merchandise.

Dollar General/Family Dollar -  Good for toys, clothes, medicine, soap, toilet paper, paper towels, baby products, general household and small appliances. 
 
Big Lots/Odd Lots - Closeouts and discontinued items from chain and department stores. Extensive food sections, toys, clothing, household, stationary, health and beauty. 

Wal-Mart - Love them or hate them, they are still the best deal in town.  As a personal preference, I don't do any of my regular shopping there, but I do drop by now and then to check out their clearance items.   

Goodwill/Salvation Army - A treasure chest if have the time to nose around.   Good for toys (most overflow with Barbies), clothes, knick-knacks, kitchen items, books and records - yes, I said 'records'.  
 
Yard Sales - Same pickings as Goodwill/Salvation Army but more hit or miss.  They are fun but you often have to hit several if you are looking for something in particular.  Popular items are toys, baby clothes, books, furniture. 
 
Friends and Family -   Most people have too much stuff.  The trick is prying the stuff out of the hands of those who just can't let go. Letting them know items will be going to families in need helps to loosen their grip.  Towels, dish towels, small appliances, VHS movies, stationary, books, sheet sets.  

Online Shopping

I actually prefer to shop online. It is easy to comparison shop, no lines and no sore feet!  You can often get free shipping or shipping lower than if you shipped items out yourself.

Fishingfordeals.com - Great deal discussion forum.  They post good deals for b&m and online stores.  They do the work for you.  Nice bunch of folks.

Kohls.com - I just love Kohl's b&m and online sales.  Their regular prices are pretty steep, but they have continual clearance and sale events.  You can get a decent discount on your purchases if you use their store card.  They also have various shipping specials. 
 
Walgreens.com -  I use them for grocery and staple purchases for my sponsored families.    Shipping is very reasonable and they have weekly online sales.

Overstock.com - You can buy just about anything there.   I use them heavily around Christmas to send bulk items to different organizations.  Shipping is $2.95 regardless of your purchase.   

OrientalTrading.com - They sell novelties in bulk.  This company is great for schools and groups that work with children.  Stationary, toys, crafts. 
How to ship to the reservation 
Shipping can be a killer.  You were so careful about what you were buying and now it comes time to ship. Depending on HOW you ship your package, you can easily end up spending just as much or more than your purchase costs.

The USPS does not deliver directly to homes.  There is a central post office in each town and residents go there for their mail.  Fed-Ex and UPS are familiar with the reservation. Since the area is so rural, it will always take a couple extra days to deliver packages.

I recommend that you do NOT use DHL or Airborne.  I have heard horror stories about the drivers dumping the boxes on the doorsteps of the first person to answer their door, including the local jail and grocery store.

I have two favourite ways to ship. For small, heavy items I ship using the USPS Flat Rate boxes.  They are $8.10 to anywhere in the U.S. with a maximum weight of 70 lbs.  I ship canned goods, hammers, nails, etc. using these boxes.

For big boxes of clothes or toys, I prefer Fed-Ex.  It costs half of USPS and several dollars less than UPS. Remember, UPS and Fed-Ex have a base charge per box and then charge per pound.  It is better to send one large box rather than several smaller ones.  I have learned that lesson well. I also always request 'signature confirmation' on delivery.  

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